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Other Info:
I am radical feminist and 110% gay, strongly against prostitution of all kinds, included womb rental and babies' sale. I am looking for someone with similar beliefs. Ideally I'd like 2 clever, caring, stable and sensitive people to co-parent, a man sperm donor AND co-parent (not interested in someone donating sperm and then disappearing) and a gay or bisexual woman to co-parent. I grew up in a community and it is my opinion that to have a little "tribe" as a family makes more stable, happy, open-minded, creative and loving kids. I will also consider just a male co-parent, if exceptionally intelligent and sensitive.
I am not looking for a relationship. I add this note particularly for Italian men who always tend to look for more. I am gay, absolutely gay, not convertible and I'm a little tired to be honest of men who try to "convert" me. I think co-parenting would be the best solution for me and in general a very good solution for a kid who will not depend on the up and downs of a relationship to have 2 or even 3 parents.
I travelled all over the world and I am currently applying to a PhD in anthropology in China. So I would prefer to find co-parents in China, Australia or New Zealand, but I am open to move anywhere for the right people as I don't intend to stay in Italy in the long term anyway.
It is my deep desire to have a baby girl and I am quite a bit informed on how to conceive a female, so I am looking for a man who would also be happy with a baby girl. I've always wanted to also adopt a child girl, so I am looking for someone compassionate who would like to do that as well with me. Either the man who will co-parent this baby or a woman who will co-parent the adopted child, or both.
A further note. I am gay but I really don't like the idea of artificial insemination. So I would only conceive naturally or with a home kit if that exists, no hospitals and the like. I also want to have the baby at home.
The reason why my ideal match is divorced is because I would like someone who is somewhat over the traditional idea of love and family. Who will really commit to this child with me and won't escape to be a father with someone else. But it doesn't really matter if you are single or divorced or whatever. You can even be married. As long as you are committed to this.. Really committed because there's no coming back once the child is born.
Finally. I smoke but really little, as a kind of prayer mostly after dinner to the Great Spirit (I lived in a tribe for 18 years). Sometimes I also smoke a little socially if I go out for an "aperitivo", and I need that to be respected, however I will not smoke when pregnant and during breastfeeding, which will last as long as the child asks for it, no matter how many months or even years, just so you know. I won't be challenged on the breastfeeding issue. Children must decide when to stop not parents or society.
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