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Hello to you. I'm a single 40 year old lesbian who spent many years supporting my ex's fertility treatment. It was a cold, protracted and ultimately clinical process that was as destructive as it was unsuccessful. That long-term relationship ended a few years ago and I've resolved to pursue my dream of motherhood regardless of my (single) status.
I've the means, lifestyle, support and disposition to create a healthy, happy and stable home for a child. I've an established professional career, comfortable home and have no diseases, dependencies or vices that would undermine my prospects of being a spectacular mother.
I'm educated, diligent, balanced and earnest. I enjoy being online, listening to music and watching tv as much as bush walks and my tennis comp. I invest substantial time and effort in my garden, enjoy taking long drives and have a gorgeous cat at home. I've a knack for foreign languages, maths and science but have poor navigation skills. I love to cook, and of course eat the fruits of my labour :-)
I am making every effort to prioritise the child in all decisions related to the conception process. My views have changed on the idea of genuine co-parenting. I now believe it is indeed in the best interests of the child to have 2 loving and responsible parents right from conception through to birth and adulthood. Also, I believe a child deserves healthy, normalised access to their identity. I would like to discuss the construct and dynamic of shared custody, and pragmatically that would include some form of extended modern family being cultivated and nurtured. I’m open to exploring options around this, including cohabitation etc where suitable. Acquiring sperm from an IVF clinic would mean the child gets no access and very little identity info until they're 18, and I simply can't make peace with that being the best arrangement.
I'd like to get to know you first and in turn have him (and your partner, if relevant) know me. Ideally you wouldn't actively pursue subsequent arrangements with multiple women, and of course we'd together have all legal arrangements to protect the rights of all parties. The kind man who helps me create a baby will be an integral part of the family unit forever, always welcome in the home and very much a Daddy to the baby.
Thank you for your time and effort to help others, perhaps myself included. This isn't something I want to do alone, and I am ready to meet you to explore mutual suitability.
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