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****(11/2016 - I am not a paying subscriber so cannot reply; am here out of wishful thinking-apparently too old for this according to most women).****Hello there,thanks for taking time to visit my profile. : )***I’m a well-bred, college-educated, intellectual and creative, non-thug/non-gangsta 48-year old man serious about co-parenting, regardless of the ‘lateness’ of my years and seeming impossibility of success. If you’ve posted on this site, it’s because you share a similar need which cannot be adequately described by mere words. We seek children, family, unity, closeness, and a type of immortality. ***We choose to exist in hope and optimism, not fear of what might be.***: Why am I wanting a child so late? ***Why? Several reasons, the first being that I crave the blessing and challenge of creating, nurturing and raising my own child(ren). Natural human desire. \r\n\r\nAnother reason: a Job-like commitment to rebuild my life—having lost two children; the first in-utero (devastating!), the second by the deliberately malicious intentions of an ex-wife who denies all contact with my 6-year old daughter***Please take note: I do have a child! This was an issue for a woman I thought was as close to ‘perfection’ as I’d find as relates to this matter (please don’t let this statement discourage you—obviously as ‘perfect’ as she was, fate/destiny decrees she isn’t ‘The One’), so I want this to be clear up front. There is no ‘baby mama drama’ because ex and daughter are completely estranged; no contact between us (though I do continue attempting to have some type of connection with my child). The positive side of this fact: I have a beautiful, healthy, intellectually vibrant, vivacious little girl; proof of the viability of my seed.***: Am I not too old for such a thing?***What is ‘too old’? Too old to love, too old to desire dedicating my life to building a loving family? Please do NOT let my age be a detriment; I have spent my adult life exercising, eating healthy foods (am not into junk food or chemical/fake foods & sweeteners), and have extremely good genes I would like to pass on in partnership with a like-minded compatible woman. At 48 I barely have any wrinkles (anywhere), and 99.9% black hair (am thinking I'll start greying this year?)***I'm an empathetic, nurturing soul--a Cancer, 'The Nurturers' of the Zodiac--and love children. I would ideally like to be as involved as possible in the post-conception, raising and education of our child(ren), and would be open to being a stay-at-home dad (provided I’d be able to work from home) if this was best for the situation/family.***Background* **Physically, I'm 6' tall, slender, muscular, very good even teeth & bright smile, handsome features, very sharp intellect. I'm generally considered easy on the eyes but am 'manly' not a 'pretty boy'. Pro-environment, pro-sustainable living, non-materialistic, unfailingly polite, not a woman-hater.\r\n\r\nMy ideal co-parent:**Healthy, fit, healthy, non-junk-heavy diet, non-smoking, moderate drinking, STD-free (as I am), ‘green’ political and environmental values, non-religious (agnostic preferred over atheist), college educated, wide-ranging interests, optimistic 'glass-half-full' life outlook, serious about devoting your life to creating and building a family. Prefer US located, but will consider relocation if right woman/situation arises.***'Race' is not an issue.***So much more to add, but this is a good start. Please feel free to contact me if anything in this posting moves you. Let’s make history, and have a wonderful time doing it. : )
p.s. Seems most of the active profiles are in the UK--so 'Cheers' from Colorado. : )
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