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I'm looking to build a loving relationship with women who are happy, kind, compassionate, and good at being friends. I come from a family of introverted performers - intellectual, warm, compassionate, and ethical vegans, but good conversationalists on almost any topic. I try to live up to their qualities, but it's also natural to be shallow at times. (We all like beauty, and there's nothing more beautiful than a woman's smile, to me.)
I travel all over the world, so no matter where you are on the planet, if you're ready to get offline and into a coffee, then I'm your man. :-)
As a man, I want to be there to provide, protect (but not control), advise, support, hug and love you as we make a life for us and be a good example to our children. I'm flirty and loyal. I have always dreamt of building a life with women who are or would like to be committed to being best friends, to understand each other and our children deeply, and to take this journey together, parenting as a large loving family.
I have my own needs, likes, and dislikes, as I'm sure you do, too. I like women who are genuinely positive; that understand that we will look and admire each other more than ourselves or anyone else. For that reason, my "picture" has always been women who prefer to wear comfortable shoes, skirts and dresses (although I would never mention this in person because, well, not only is it absolutely your right to decide what you want to wear whether you wanted to appeal to me or not, but also because I try to avoid offering an opinion unless I'm specifically asked).
Our differences fascinate me, and I like women who'll try anything once without hesitation (so long as it doesn't hurt or harm anyone, of course), who recognises that things can be different a second time or with a different person, who appreciates others and themselves equally, and who can communicate what they want and need and acknowledge that it doesn't matter when they don't know or aren't sure. You don't have to have a plan beyond "us, together, forever, no matter what life throws" and a positive attitude and energy. :-) This positive, loyal attitude is what I'm like (well, except I don't wear skirts :-p) and these are the things that would form a basis for our relationship and parenting.
I studied in the areas of science, music, dramatic arts, and ethics. I am vegan because I believe strongly in love, empathy, and compassion for all living beings (even though I'm scared of some of them!). I'm respectful of people's choices, beliefs, and religions, and don't proselytise, but I am curious and like to discuss everything with a relaxed attitude. I see the positive in all beliefs when done compassionately and I want to instill that in our vegan children. I want to raise our children with the same beliefs and respect for the world and all its people and creatures. I want our children to be raised like I was - with the best chance in life and no regrets.
I'm medium height, reasonably attractive (I was a child model), attentive, and a good provider. I'm currently single but have been in multiple long-term relationships lasting many years. I'm good at organising and spontaneity. I am safe, willing to go through all the health checks and have a WWCC. I have a couple of degrees and a professional job. I think I'm a reasonably good communicator but I'll let you be the judge of that. ;-)
So please send me a message and let's have a chat over a coffee anywhere in the world. :-)
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