Using Co-ParentMatch.com Safely: How to Find a Sperm Donor or Co-Parent Online
How Do I Use Sperm Donor & Co-Parenting Websites Safely?
At Co-ParentMatch.com, taking the first step toward parenthood is a life-changing decision.
This guide explains how to use Co-ParentMatch safely, confidently, and successfully while maximising your
chances of finding the right co-parent or sperm donor.
Our mission is simple: to help loving alternative families form safely by matching like-minded
individuals who want to become parents.
Creating Your Co-ParentMatch Profile
Think of your profile as a shop window. A complete, honest, and engaging profile attracts more suitable
matches and helps build trust from the start.
- Complete all profile sections, including age and location
- Clearly state what you are looking for in a donor or co-parent
- Upload a clear profile photo (profiles with photos receive more views)
- Add multiple photos where possible to increase engagement
You can browse profiles for free as a Basic Member. To communicate with other members,
a Premium Membership is required.
Profile Language & Code of Conduct
Use clear, respectful, and honest language in your profile and messages. Being upfront about your
expectations helps prevent misunderstandings later.
- Be truthful about intentions and circumstances
- Avoid vague or misleading descriptions
- Offensive or abusive language is not tolerated
Any breach of our Terms & Conditions or Code of Conduct may result in permanent removal from the platform.
Searching for Your Co-Parent or Sperm Donor
Completing both the About You and About Your Match sections allows
Co-ParentMatch.com to recommend the most relevant profiles.
Specific search criteria reduce unsuitable matches and increase the likelihood of finding the
right parenting partner.
Selecting Your Co-Parent Match
Once you find a suitable profile, start a conversation. We recommend keeping all communication
within the internal messaging system until trust has been established.
- Do not share personal contact details too early
- Use on-site messaging for safety and record-keeping
Preparing to Meet Safely
- Meet in public places initially
- Never feel pressured — you remain in control
- Tell a trusted person where you are meeting
- Verify photo ID and health screening
- Report inappropriate behaviour immediately
We strongly recommend using an HFEA-licensed fertility clinic wherever possible.
Legal Considerations
Drawing up a legal co-parenting agreement before conception can help clarify expectations around
parenting roles, access, and responsibilities.
Seek independent legal advice before signing any agreement.
Health Screening
Both donor and recipient should complete health screening before proceeding.
- HIV
- Chlamydia
- Gonorrhoea
- Syphilis
- Hepatitis B & C
Using a licensed clinic removes legal parental responsibility from the donor.
Private donation laws vary by country.
Natural Insemination & Consent
You are never required to agree to natural insemination. Consent must be mutual,
informed, and pressure-free.
Report any inappropriate behaviour immediately.
Payment for Sperm
Selling sperm is illegal in many countries, including the UK.
Donors may only request reasonable expenses such as travel costs.
- Never send money in advance
- Agree expenses beforehand
- Report requests for payment immediately
Co-ParentMatch.com is not responsible for the actions of two consenting adults
outside the scope of this website.