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Life is not always easy. When I had the perfect partner, I was too young to even think about family or having children (although we always used to fantasize about it); and then in my later mature years, when I was ready to become a mother, I just couldn't seem to find the right partner for it.
I did not think about using a sperm donor for a years, because for all these years I always believed that a child should be the product of love between two people. And I always struggled with the idea to do it on my own without a partner on my side to also love me and support me. But as I have reached my late 30's and more maturity and comfort in my own skin and facing life, I realized that having a baby is probably more important to me, than waiting for the perfect relationship to happen... If I have to choose between 'thinking outside the box' and not having a baby at all, I'll rather 'think outside the box'... :)
I am a professional musician and music teacher, well educated, hard working, responsible, kind and loving, have lived in different countries and I know I have a lot of love, care and good guidance to give to my baby, but I can't do that on my own, so I need a bit of help from a man who wants to help me out in this journey. At first I was looking for an anonymous donor, but the thought of not knowing at all who the father of my child could be, freaked the*****out of me... It feels much more human to be able to know. I am discovering the possibilities of co-parenting, as this idea is new to me, this is something I would have to explore and think about, but I am more than open to discuss the possibilities, particularly to what could be the best for the child.
With a good, honest, kind and open communication and clear agreements shouldn't be a problem!
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