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James158

Single gay man

Co-parent, Become a sperm donor

Age: 37
Location: Lewisham, Greater London, United Kingdom
Last Online : 9 days ago
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Personal Information

I am/We are: Single gay man
Gender: Male
Looking to: Co-parent, Become a sperm donor
Joined as: Single
Marital Status: Single

My Profile Details

Ethnic Origin: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Children: 0
No. of children you'd like with your match?: 3
Height : 6’0” 72in 182.88cm
Body Type: Average
Hair: Brown
Eyes: Blue
Smoke: No
Drink: Yes
Any genetic illness within your family?: No
Blood Group: O
Will Undertake a Health Screening Test?: Yes
Education: Degree
Profession: Government & Public Administration
Income: Moderate
Exercise Undertaken?: 1-2 Days a week
Reasons for Donating: To help others
Method of Donation: Home Insemination
Prepared to travel: Up to 100 miles
Contact with Child: Like to Discuss

My Partners Profile Details

Ethnic Origin: Don't know / Won't say
Religion: Don't know / Won't say
Children: Don't know / Won't say
No. of children you'd like with your match?: Don't know / Won't say
Height : Don't know / Won't say
Body Type: Don't know / Won't say
Hair: Don't know / Won't say
Eyes: Don't know / Won't say
Smoke: Don't know / Won't say
Drink: Don't know / Won't say
Any genetic illness within your family?: Don't know / Won't say
Blood Group: Don't know / Won't say
Will Undertake a Health Screening Test?: Don't know / Won't say
Education: Don't know / Won't say
Profession: Don't know / Won't say
Income: Don't know / Won't say
Exercise Undertaken?: Don't know / Won't say
Reasons for Donating: Don't know / Won't say
Method of Donation: Don't know / Won't say
Prepared to travel: Don't know / Won't say
Contact with Child: Don't know / Won't say

What I am / we are looking for

Looking for: Single heterosexual woman:Partnered heterosexual woman:Single lesbian:Lesbian couple:Single bisexual woman:Bisexual Couple:Partnered transgender man

My Hobbies & Interests

Interests: Camping, Cinema, Culture, Cooking, DVD Nights In, Eating Out, Nightlife, Outdoors, Sports, Travel

Other Information about me/us

Other Info: Fit Healthy Intelligent Solvent Gay guy looking for a women interested in co-parenting/surrogacy and to help with sperm donation.

So I thought I would add a little context and clarity as to what I am ideally looking for from this site. I know that being a gay man would be a put off to some women who are looking for a co-parenting relationship, however I normally find that this is because many women connect ""gay"" with being ""camp"", which I simply am not, and actually if you think about it there could be additional benefits above and beyond those relationships between a straight man and woman. However you will have your own thoughts and personal opinions about this which I shan't seek to change - for those of you that have read this and thinking a gay dad isn't for my kid - I wish you well in starting your own family. For those women who aren't deterred by the gender of person I share my bed with - hopefully you will read this and find some of the qualities that you are looking for, in a person that for 18+ years, you will need to have a close relationship with.This website should be about a starting point - an initial connection, to finding out if we are compatible, and that our habits, beliefs and lifestyles can merge to bring our child up in a happy, caring and loving family, to that end I'll start the conversation but if you decide to message back it would be really useful if you gave me a little thought and content as to what you are like and the kind of upbringing you wish any child of yours to have.Family life:Well I guess the first place to start is to give you a picture of what my family was like - I am 36 (July '83) and was born to a Film/Stage Gaffer (Head of Lighting on a Set) and a Local Government/Council Officer.

Sadly my father died of a road traffic accident when I was 18 months old and I was raised in a single parent widow family. My Mother remarried in 90's and fell pregnant again with my baby (half) sister Daisy who is 10 years younger than I am.I grew up in South East London, and its here that I currently still live, having bought back into the area a few years ago.I am very much a family man - I like spending time with all of my family from my grandmother to my 8 week old (born february 2011) God son. on the whole we are a relatively small close knit group that are really supportive and protective of one and other.I went to a good school to which I got a partial scholarship to attend, and also attend University where I read Geography.

Academic History:I hold an Upper Second Honours Degree majoring in Geography and minoring in Planning, while at University I got quite heavily involved in politics and Students' Union-ism at both a local and national level.While in Secondary School I held some national prizes for Chemistry, and was a keen junior Dinghy/boat racer.

Alongside this I was actively involved in extra curricula activities, the arts, sports and theatrical lighting where all in my hobbies.I was fortunate enough to attend a primary school that only had 10 children in class and felt I really benefited from, and enjoyed this environment.

Personal Life:At the time of writing I am a single fella - I wouldn't mind someone in my life to share things with, but neither is this a necessity - whatever happens in that department happens I guess. ""/I have however wanted to be a dad and have my own family for as long as I can remember, and while my sexuality is somewhat a barrier to that happening, I dont see it as insurmountable, and ideally I would like to have more than one child with the same women, but a realist that things people and circumstances change.

For my work, I am a manager within a large charity, I get to work from home and work flexi hours. (My salary range is in the bracket above, for those of you whom are interested in that).

I own my own three bedroom house in London (my child(ren) would be able to have their own room), that backs onto a park with a river, tennis cour

My Ideal Match Details

Will Sign Legal Donor Contract: Yes
Religion: Don't know / Won't say
Ethnicity: Caucasian
Co-Parenting Role: Don't know / Won't say
Contact with Child: Like to Discuss
Take a Health Screening Test: Don't know / Won't say
Method of Donating: Needs Discussion
Marital Status: Don't know / Won't say
Body Type: Don't know / Won't say
Hair: Don't know / Won't say
Eyes: Don't know / Won't say
Smoke: Don't know / Won't say
Drink: Don't know / Won't say
Blood Group: Don't know / Won't say
Height: Don't know / Won't say
Education: Don't know / Won't say
Profession: Don't know / Won't say
Income: Don't know / Won't say
Exercise: Don't know / Won't say