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Hello There 👋🏼
Wanting to be a parent and needing help!
So, looking to my lovely community to maybe help this ex-(step) dad [dad nonetheless] of 8.5yrs, become a dad again 🙏🏼 ❤️🩹
My name’s Julian!!
I’m very serious and looking to become a parent as soon as possible and hope to find the perfect fit for everyone 🙏🏼
Who am I 🧐
Well.. I’m a Sicilian/Italian 33yr old single gentleman looking to have a child!! Whether that’s someone who carrys the baby for me, or I adopt/help an unplanned situation out, or even finding someone/couple to coparent with. Anyone fitting that description 🙉🙊🙈 Let’s talk! I’m over here 🙋🏻♂️ lol. Oh, and I definitely got the dad jokes down already 💪🏼🥳🙈😂🤦🏻♂️ haha.
Being that I have coparented before for nearly a decade, I’m the perfect person to understand coparenting with you! Think that’s one awesome thing I bring to the table compared to others. I understand being fair with parenting time between us. It’s important we feel included in the child life! And the child feels loved by everyone with equal time to connect.
See, my knowledge of parenting comes from well.. because I was a Dad before actually. A stepdad but again, a dad nonetheless! I raised my daughter, from when she was in the belly & we found out, to my kid being 8yrs old. Blood meant/means nothing, that’s my daughter and I had no issue raising her like she was my own 🥳🥰💪🏼❤️
She was my mini-me, my best friend and spitting image of me in her traits and characteristics honestly! But, her mom & I split, and then her mom met someone else. And as us grownups know, not every happy story has a happy ending 😩 Life happens, and you can’t control how things happen. I unfortunately don’t get to see my daughter anymore because her moms life moved on and I wasn’t apart of that picture. I wasn’t on the birth certificate so my hands were tide. Hard situation I was left with unfortunately. I miss my daughter dearly all the time, every day. Imagine raising your child for nearly a decade and then they’re ripped from you. Worst thing I ever experienced in my life. I am an amazing present parent! I was ready for another kid right after her nearly 10yrs ago haha. I’m most certainly ready for one now especially! Lol.
I truly was an amazing parent and love my kid!! Blood or not, it meant nothing to me. That was my baby 🥰And that same mentality goes towards any of my future children 🙏🏼
I haven’t found a girl in the near 5yrs I’ve been single because the dating scene is terrifying haha, but it’s not going to stop me being single and wanting kids. And it shouldn’t stop me! Even if I can’t have them on my own 😣❤️🩹 so.. looking for help 🙈🙏🏼 My ex & I tried for maaaany yrs for baby number 2 but it just never happened. I’ll explain more below.
My work situation:
I LOVE WHERE I WORK! Let’s start off with that haha. Because many people can’t say that. So, I really love love love that I can! Because finally I can say it lol. I’m a distribution center manager!! I have Great hrs and days I work/have off. Mon-Fri schedule and 4, maybe 5hrs a day.
Where I live:
I live in a spacious 6 bedroom house. We love our cozy home! Fenced yards and plenty of space to add a baby that will be loved unconditional!! I say WE by the way because I moved my mom and brother up to Oregon to live with me after my dad passed away unexpectedly ❤️My best friend and her partner, as well as their 10yr old son did live with us, but they moved into the house across the street because it became available haha. So we are still very close lol! I have a big enough home that I have a room right next to mine for a kids room. Got a crib up ready to go too 🥳
All my loved ones (support system) are aware of my situation and can’t wait for me to get to have a child, “again”. They love and support me and know how great of a parent I am. This house is full of love and kindness. The people in my life are nothing but kind, loving and
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