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Other Info:
About Me
I'm a 45-year-old married man and a very proud father. Fatherhood is one of the most meaningful things in my life, and I've realized that I still have a strong desire to help bring another wanted child into the world.
I'm a curious, hands-on person. I enjoy figuring out how things work, working on engines, fixing things around the house, learning new skills, listening to music, and writing. I'm also someone who genuinely enjoys helping people. If something needs to be figured out or fixed, I'm usually the person who wants to understand how it works rather than simply give up on it.
I've been fortunate to build a stable life and career, and I've learned that being a good parent isn't about being perfect. It's about showing up, taking responsibility, protecting the people who depend on you, and continuing to learn.
Why I'm Here
I'm considering becoming a known donor because I genuinely love being a father and would like to help another woman who sincerely wants to become a mother.
This isn't something I want to do casually or simply because I can. We're talking about creating another human being, and I take that responsibility seriously.
I don't care whether the child is a boy or a girl. I'm not looking to create an heir, and I'm not looking for someone to fulfill a particular role in my life.
What matters most to me is that the child is wanted, loved, safe, and cared for.
One thought is especially important to me:
If that child someday asks, "Did my biological father want me?"
I want their mother to be able to honestly answer:
"Yes. He did. He wanted you to exist."
What I'm Looking For
I'm looking for a woman who has genuinely thought about becoming a mother and who approaches that decision thoughtfully and responsibly.
I'd like to get to know a prospective mother before making any commitment. That's not about looking for perfection or judging someone's life. It's because we're talking about creating a person, and I want both of us to be comfortable that we're approaching that responsibility seriously.
I'm not looking for a romantic relationship or expecting a woman to become my partner.
Likewise, I don't automatically expect to be called "Dad" or to have a parental role simply because I'm biologically related to a child. I believe those relationships and titles should develop according to what is right for the child and everyone involved.
I'm interested in a respectful, honest arrangement with clearly discussed expectations and boundaries.
AI or Natural Conception
I'm open to assisted insemination.
I'm also open to discussing natural conception if both people genuinely want that option and it is appropriate for the circumstances.
If natural conception were considered, it would be because we had mutually and explicitly agreed to it—not because sex is something a woman has to provide in exchange for my participation as a donor.
I'm attracted to women, and I'm not going to pretend that natural conception wouldn't also be an intimate experience for me. But the purpose of being here is creating a wanted child, not finding casual sex.
Consent, comfort, safety, and honesty would come first throughout the process.
A Little More About Me
I'm someone who believes that the past doesn't have to determine the future.
I've had difficult experiences in life, but they taught me something important: you can decide what kind of person you want to become.
I chose to become someone who takes responsibility, helps others, protects the people he loves, and tries to leave things better than he found them.
I also believe that legacy isn't only about genetics. It's about the things we teach, the people we help, the stories we leave behind, and the lives we influence.
If I can help another person come into the world who is genuinely wanted and loved, I'd consider that something meaningful.
If any of this resonates with you, I'm happy to have a conversa
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